A Gown Made for a Princess
Lots of things go into the perfect wedding, but nothing’s more crucial than the dress. Finding the one won’t be easy, but we’ve got a few easy-peasy tips to follow that’ll hopefully make the journey a little easier.
1. Get Some Inspiration
First and foremost, you’ll need a little inspo before the boutique. Lucky for you, there’s no shortage of it online—Pinterest boards are your best friend before it’s officially time to make the call. Your research should also include some of the best spots to dress hunt in your area.
2. Don’t Strive for Too Much
As exciting as it is to shop, remember to keep a modest wish list. Laundry lists make it harder for both you and your consultant to find the look you’re after. If you’re having trouble landing on an idea, remember your wedding theme and exact adjectives to describe your style.
3. Make an Appointment
Bridal boutiques aren’t your everyday shopping center. You’ll need to call ahead of time to squeeze in. Some places are more booked than you think, so have a few locations on hand in case you can’t fit into one.
4. Set Your Budget
Never shop without a budget, especially for something pricey like a wedding gown. Remember your costs won’t only include the dress—everything from alterations and jewelry to veils and shoes also cost a pretty penny.
5. Round Up Your Crew
You always have the option to go alone, and some people certainly prefer it that way, but a supportive entourage is just as important. Whether it’s immediate family or some of your closest friends (maybe a mix of both), pick a select few for a second opinion.
6. Go Ahead of Time
Now that we know boutiques do things differently, it’s time to talk about your schedule! It’s incredibly rare to find a dress straight off the rack, which means you’ll need to shop at least nine to twelve months ahead of the wedding. With that much extra time, you’ll have enough space for alterations.
7. Visit on a Weekday
If you and your party can swing it, try shopping on a weekday. There won’t be as much traffic and you’ll likely have more time with your consultant. If you can only book peak times, remember to treat any busy consultants with kindness.
8. Record the Event
Don’t bank on your memory. If you find a dress you love, take pictures and video. Videos in particular help you visualize how a dress moves, how you look in it, and what photos on the big day might look like.
9. Don’t Shop Above Budget
Every little girl wants her fairy tale wedding—but as adults, we realize that castle in the clouds costs a lot of money. Don’t shop above budget. The last thing you need amid all that planning is an added expense. With the right shopping and consultant, you’ll find something you love within budget!
10. Go to a Seamstress
Some bridal shops won’t take measurements unless you buy something. Head to a seamstress or DIY your measurements at home before heading out. If you find something you love, consultants can always double-check the numbers. If not, at least you know what size you are.
11. Wear Proper Undergarments
It’s best to arrive in neutral tones, both for your shoes and undergarments. In fact, most gowns are surprisingly supportive, so most brides-to-be don’t even need a bra. But bring one just in case.
12. Prepare to Get Personal
Speaking of bras, they’re not always necessary in a fitting room, and because consultants help you in and out of dresses, you’ll likely bare your chest in the process. While it happens all the time, keep it in mind if you’re someone more conservative!
13. Keep Your Hair Up
Wrangle those storybook locks before your appointment. Not only does it keep your hair out of the way, but it helps keep you cool as you try on dress after dress. When you find the perfect one, you can always style your hair on the fly to match your wedding day look.
14. Eat Something Beforehand
Trying on dresses is hard work! Seriously. Between stepping in and out of delicate gowns to walking the aisle in heavy material, you’ll sweat before you know it. Indulge in a snack beforehand to keep your energy up.
15. Make it an All-Day Affair
No bride wants to feel rushed during her appointment. Book a lengthy session so you and your entourage can make an informed decision. Even if you don’t find anything, you don’t want to speed through it and miss any potential dresses.
16. Have Questions Ready
There are no stupid questions, so get your list ready! Inquire about return policies and sample-size purchases. Ask about alteration timelines. Explore payment options. Most importantly, ask how long a style will be available if you need time to think about it.
17. Keep an Open Mind
While it’s good to have inspiration, it’s just as important to keep an open mind. Consultants are pros and they can help you lock in a style you may not have thought of. You never know what they might introduce you to!
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18. You Don’t Have to Say Yes
Don’t pressure yourself into buying a dress you don’t want. If your heart isn’t in it, you can always come back. Even if you find a dress you love, you’re well within your rights to think about it a bit more—just remember that style might not be there next time.
19. Remember Travel Restrictions
Destination weddings come with enough headaches, but wedding dress travel is a different beast. Speak with your consultant and airline about shipping. No bride wants to find her perfect dress only to discover it goes against airline regulations.
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20. It’s Okay to Feel Stressed
It’s okay to feel overwhelmed during your appointment. It’s okay to feel overwhelmed while reading this list! The important thing is that you remember there’s a whole team of people prepared to help, so you’re never doing it alone.
